Milestone
Tuesday, July 18, 2006
I like birthdays because it gives you an excuse to get back in touch with folks without feeling too awkward.
After a year of living life in semi-seclusion, I am blessed to have friends who continued to knock at my door even when they're only greeted with either half-heartedness or silence . It is this sort of unconditional friendship that should be treasured.
As my birthday came around and well-wishers (some I haven't spoken to in a long time) sprinkled my day with greetings, I slowly got back into initiating meet ups. Maybe that's why birthdays are such big deals since they are means of bringing people together to celebrate one's life and not some worldwide occasion.
So many things have transpired since the last birthday and I'm healing well from the pain and trauma even if it is at the cost of a limited social life. Still can't believe that a year has passed but then again, I am glad that there is a perpetual milestone that reminds me to look ahead. Perhaps it is time to remove those chains for good and re-build relationships with those who matter. |
